See your daughter growing into Cinderella
Written by Nimisha Rattan   

Mother’s love and affection is the biggest attraction for the daughter that she seeks in her. If mothers take an extra effort to show their daughters that they are loved, they can grow more secure and responsible as adults. A hug, special handmade card saying I love you on it, and letting them know they are good daughters, make them realize they are loved and what love is.

Every mother was a daughter some day and every daughter would be mother one day. Mother tries to give the best she can to her daughter and the daughter needs that unconditional love from her mother to make her happy and satisfied.

In the past it was easier for the moms to stay home with their kids and raise them, keep them close and watch them grow happy and strong. But today it is so different for the mothers. They have to work full-time outside the house. They do not find time to relax and spend with their kids. On such occasions daughters sometimes act as adult and try to support their mothers by being less demanding and helping. Thus they tend to be a responsible adult at a very young age, which help them to become mature enough to raise the family in a better way in the times to come.
Mother’s love and affection is the biggest attraction for the daughter that she seeks in her. If mothers take an extra effort to show their daughters that they are loved, they can grow more secure and responsible as adults. A hug, special handmade card saying I love you on it, and letting them know they are good daughters, make them realize they are loved and what love is.
Communication helps to bridge a good and healthy relationship between moms and daughters. This should be a relation of friendship between two of them. They must find a common platform where they can share mutual interests with each others. So take the time to stop and listen what your daughter has to say. As the daughters grow and have ideas of their own, it is important for the moms to keep communicating and listen to their daughters. At this stage they have different needs and mothers should recognize that change with an open mind and lots of understanding.
Letting a daughter make her own choices, decisions and mistakes is very hard. Mothers tend to hold on tighter when a child starts to drift. This is when it is important for a mom to trust her daughter. This way, it is assured that the efforts and guidance that was given to her child, while growing up was done right and that the road they choose will be the best they can have for themselves.
Daughter should be given some choices in her life, so that she can make some mistakes to learn from them. This would help to make and mould their personalities positively to make them good adults and she would know the wrong and right out of it.
So take a step back to see your daughter growing into Cinderella and it would be a precious moment that can be turned into a precious memory.
Nimisha Rattan
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Student of Ayurveda & Panchakarma)